Tuesday, February 5, 2008

carnevale vs halloween

One of the things that thrills me about living in Europe is that they don't do Halloween here. Now, most of my American and Canadian friends looooove Halloween. You just mention the word and they sink into the abyss of nostalgia, relaying to you a year by year account of their favourite childhood pasttime while your eyes glaze over.

Not I. Call me a party pooper by I can't get into a festival that encourages children to knock on complete stranger's doors at night, beg for candy, and then stuff themselves full of junk for the next month or two, rotting their teeth and stacking on pounds.

The one positive aspect of Halloween is the dressing up, which is why I think that carnevale is a great idea. Less sugar, less pigging out, more focus on the costumes.

Today is mardi gras and there is a festa at the Bambina's school. In preparation for this big day, I suggested to the Bambina last week that she dress up as a ballerina. Great costume for her and easy for me - she would just wear what she wears to dance class every week, with a little bit of make-up to boot! And as all of the Bambina's girlfriends planned to go as princesses, at least as a ballerina, she would distinguish herself somewhat. Perfect.

And then yesterday, when I reminded the Bambina that tomorrow was the big day and she would go to school as a ballarina, she popped the big news.

"I don't want to go as a ballarina!" she yelled.

Uh oh, I thought to myself. She wants to go as a princess. I will have to go buy a princess costume.

"I want to go as a LION!" she said.

A lion? She wants to go as a lion?

And then she roared! She really did want to go as a lion.

So I spent yesterday procuring a lion costume (borrowed from a friend) and some face paint. She refused the face paint in the end.

And today we arrived at school. Would you believe, every single other little girl in her class was dressed up as a princess? But not my Bambina. She was a lion!

5 comments:

Everyday Yogini said...

Fabulous!!! I love it! Clara went as a butterfly princess to her school today... I am looking forward to the girls meeting tomorrow!

lomalinda said...

Good for her - how fun! Giulia and Paloma wanted to go as dalmatians!

Michelle said...

Haha! The same happened with my 3 yr old. I thought she would want to go as Snow White, but chose to go as a monkey instead (and brought along her tiger costume just in case she wanted to cahnge her mind at the last minute). Her class was full of princesses.

erin said...

this sounds fun! it would be great to have such an individualistic daughter!

joe@italyville.com said...

That's great! I think carnevale costumes are better too... we got some trick-or-treaters that didn't even dress up this year! no costume, no candy!